5 Destination Wedding Myths

Think destination weddings are too expensive, impersonal, or impossible to plan? Think again! In this post, we bust the five biggest destination wedding myths—from “free” weddings to guest attendance and safety in Mexico. Learn the real facts about planning a destination wedding in Mexico or the Caribbean and discover why saying “I do” in paradise might be the smartest (and most magical) decision you’ll ever make.

6/23/20243 min read

a wedding set up on a pier with white chairs
a wedding set up on a pier with white chairs
Myth #2: Destination Weddings Cost More

In fact, the opposite is true. On average, destination weddings in Mexico and the Caribbean cost 30 - 50% less than traditional weddings in the United States.

For instance, a wedding in the Boise, Idaho area often runs between $25,000 - $35,000, while a comparable Cancún destination wedding averages just $12,000 - $18,000, and that often includes a multi-day celebration for you and your guests.

With bundled resort packages, fewer vendors to coordinate, and nature’s own stunning backdrop, couples find destination weddings to be both romantic and cost-effective.

Basic wedding gazebo for a free wedding
Basic wedding gazebo for a free wedding
💍 Five Destination Wedding Myths - Busted (by Someone Who Knows!)

If you’ve ever dreamed of saying “I do” with your toes in the sand, warm ocean breezes, and your favorite people nearby, you’ve probably also heard a few myths that make you pause. As a travel wedding specialist who’s helped countless couples plan destination weddings in Mexico and the Caribbean, I’m here to set the record straight—and help you see just how magical (and surprisingly practical) your dream celebration can be.

Myth #1: It's FREE to get married!

It’s true—some resorts advertise “free weddings.” But what’s behind the fine print? Often, those packages include very basic décor, a small guest allowance, or only semi-private ceremony locations. There may even be minimum room-night requirements for your group.

So, while the word “free” sounds appealing, those weddings are usually starting points. If you want privacy, upgraded décor, or a customized celebration that truly reflects your love story, there will be added costs. Still, with expert planning, destination weddings in Mexico or the Caribbean can remain beautifully affordable and stress-free.

Myth #3: No One Will Attend

I hear this one all the time: “If we do a destination wedding, no one will come.”

But here’s what actually happens - your guest list becomes filled with the people who matter most. These are your closest friends and family, the ones who wouldn’t miss your big day for anything.

Because destination weddings are usually planned 12–18 months in advance, your guests have time to budget, save, and make payment plans. So maybe you have 70 guests instead of 150 but they’ll be the most special 70 people in your life. You’ll spend quality time together, creating once-in-a-lifetime memories that a one-day wedding at home just can’t match.

destination wedding table setting
destination wedding table setting
Myth #4: Destination Weddings Lack Personalization

This couldn’t be further from the truth. Today’s resorts in Mexico and the Caribbean offer endless possibilities for personalization. You’re not limited to “beach-only” ceremonies! You can choose a lush garden, ocean-view terrace, rooftop, or even a chic modern ballroom.

You’ll have complete freedom to select your colors, flowers, entertainment, and décor down to the smallest detail. Your destination wedding can feel as unique as your love story, just with a better backdrop.

Myth #5: Mexico Isn’t Safe

This is one of the most common fears and one of the easiest to debunk. Major tourist destinations like Cancún, Puerto Vallarta, and Cabo San Lucas are just as safe as well-known vacation spots in Europe or Asia. The yellow threat level you may see in Mexico is also listed for Italy, Greece, and France.

Resorts take guest safety seriously with gated entrances, on-site security, and trusted local partners. Each year, thousands of couples say “I do” in Mexico without any issues, returning home with nothing but beautiful memories and incredible photos.

The Truth About Destination Weddings

A destination wedding isn’t just an event - it’s an experience. It’s a multi-day celebration filled with sunsets, laughter, and time spent with the people who matter most. It’s also a surprisingly affordable and completely customizable way to start your life together.

When you have the right guidance, your wedding abroad becomes everything you’ve dreamed of - and so much more. ✨

Ready to start planning your destination wedding in Mexico or the Caribbean?

Let’s turn your dream celebration into a reality you’ll remember forever. 🌺

beach wedding location in Riviera Maya, Mexico
beach wedding location in Riviera Maya, Mexico